This apparently is how one of my grandads used to describe hangovers. I seem to have developed two new self inflicted wound syndromes though. I have the oughtas and the havetas.
That is, I take TOO MUCH stuff on because I feel I ought to take responsibility for things (the oughtas) and because I feel I have to (the havetas).
The treatment? Stop it, you numbskull. Shall we see if it’s that easy?